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  • Everyone Grieves Differently…

    For the past 11 days since Daddy’s physical form passed away my life has been put in a blender, spun into puree, and spit back out again. The impact of The Captain’s passing has hit many, many people hard. Everyone deals with grief differently. Personally I don’t like to cry in front of people. Tons […]

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  • Day 9: When Things Begin to Sink In…

    Every morning I wake up and feel for you. The moment I can’t my heart breaks all over again. It’s real. This living nightmare is real. Your physical form is gone. I squeezed my eyes shut and called out for you aloud. “Nani!”. In the depths of my mind your voice came instantly. “I’m here, […]

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  • Day 8: The Mornings are the Hardest

    Dear Daddy, The mornings are the most difficult. I still stir around 5:30 am and wake up. I reach over and feel our daughter sleeping next to me in the bed. Gosh I miss your snores. I miss the warmth of your body. I miss the way you would feel me reach for you and […]

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  • Day 7: Finding Little Space When Everything is Broken…

    Daddy will always be my Daddy. Of that, I’m sure. I’m also sure that I will never marry again. Once you’ve married your best friend, soulmate, lover, Daddy, etc. nothing else could ever compare. I’m comfortable with this decision too. I miss our Little Space terribly. Daddy could always shrink me at a moment’s notice. […]

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  • Day 6: The Night Before Daddy Passed Away…

    Today is Friday September 16th, 2022. It has been one week since Daddy’s physical form passed away. Not long after his passing I heard him speak to us reminding us that although his physical form is gone, Daddy is still here. Daddy is not dead! I have to keep reminding myself of this. I want […]

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  • Day 5: And Then the Anger Came…

    Dear Mahal ko, I’m so angry I could cry…. again. Today I woke up just pissed off. I’m not pissed off at you. I promise. I know in my soul that you would never want to leave kiddo or I so suddenly. I know that! I’m angry that our world exploded so suddenly. I’m angry […]

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